If you’re looking to have sex somewhere different or new, you have an almost infinite number of options. Most of those options, however, are reasonably unappealing or dangerous, so it is vital to sift out the dodgy spots and choose a hot spot. This may be inside your home, in someone else’s home, in a vehicle of some description, a public building, or outdoors. You are only limited by your imagination, your willingness to try something new and your physical flexibility.
Best places to have sex
There are a few “best” locations to have sex that have been tried and tested by billions of people over many centuries. True, cars weren’t invented for most of those centuries (nor hot tubs or waterbeds), but luckily we have some of these things at our disposal.
The back seat of a car: Uncomfortable? Usually. Exciting? Almost always. Start off in the front seat with some smooth moves, and work your way back once the heat has become unbearable — that way neither of you will care so much about the bumps and bruises you’ll end up with.
Hot tubs: Now, it’s true that most people don’t actually own a hot tub, but nevertheless, it is a fantastic location to get it on due to the larger space, the hot bubbles and the skimpy outfits.
Water beds: Water beds are an underrated source of pleasure, and despite their bad reputation for the vertebrae, the water bed creates an extension of your two bodies’ rocking motion — and accentuates it. Even hotter is removing the water bed cover and slathering yourselves in oil.
Saunas: These may cause you both to overheat and faint, but they have bench seats, heat and nudity all in their favour. Remember your water bottle, and it’s probably best to make it quick so as not to crack your skull.
Best positions to have sex in a car
There is a method to this madness, so save yourself some clumsiness and get these car positions right the first time.
Doggy dash: You sit in the passenger seat, and your girl sits back on you — facing forward — with her hands balancing her on the dashboard.
Backseat mission: This requires your lover to lie back on the back seat with her legs in the air. You enter her, almost like the missionary position, but with her legs over your shoulders.
Lighthouse: If you have a sunroof, utilise this feature by sitting on the top edge of the passenger seat and have your lover get up close and personal with your gear in her mouth. She has all the room she needs, and you are comfortable getting some fresh air.
Hoodlicker: Or, if you want to bury your face in her sweet spot, sit her on the hood of your car with her feet on the edge, leaning back, resting on her hands. Again, you both have plenty of room to move and are not getting knocked around.
Location ideas
There are several places in your home that you can use to get more enjoyment out of your surroundings. Turn out all of the lights and have a blind encounter, or try it on the washing machine, rooftop or in the bathroom. There are limited options within the home, but use your imagination and make it your personal mission to do it everywhere possible.
Shower sex
Several things can go wrong having sex in the shower, particularly if there is glass involved. Sex in the shower is most often done standing up (using the smallest shower as a guide), so if you don’t match height-wise you may run into trouble. You can hold her up and lean her against a wall with her legs around your waist, lean her up against a wall and take her from behind or have a soapy lather slide. Do not — under any circumstances — rub soap into her vagina. If you have a stool or chair in your shower, you can use that too, with you sitting and her straddling.
Public sex
If doing it in public sounds appealing, the options are virtually limitless. Shopping centres, public toilets, cinemas, empty classrooms, the park, golf course, coat check… You get the drift. There are loads of places that can accommodate public sex positions, so wear appropriate clothing and get ready to run.
location, location, location
Sex should never be confined to just the bedroom, though that is the place that is usually the most convenient and comfortable for everyone. Choosing a different location for your lovemaking can really make the difference between a standard sexual encounter and a fabulously exciting one. Being naughty does us all good, so be careful and enjoy!
I LOVE having sex outdoors… that’s my thing… random places.
Like if I’m going for a walk with my lady in the park, sometimes I push her into some bushes and start doing it to her…. lol
Okay, not that rough, but yeah, I’ve had sex in the bushes in the park… side of the house, public pool, back of the movie theatre… so exciting.
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As a naturist couple that sometimes use saunas, I can say without a doubt that sex is the LAST thing on our minds, even when we have the sole use of the sauna! It’s just too hot. I doubt very much that guys can get it up in those conditions & if by some chance they could, I doubt they could maintain an errection long enough to be much use to a gal!!!
Sex in public though….now that’s more up our street!
The beach is favourite, the local woods have been good too ( I once had a threesome with 2 guys while my husband took photos in a wood a few miles away!), otherwise “same room sex” with other couples where there is no partner swopping can be a very erotic experience..
We both love the idea that others can see us, it appeals to our exhibitionist streaks!
AS much as I love steam baths and sauna’s … just no way. Some foreplay maybe but sex? I think I’d pass out! Having said that – we did do it at a Scadinavian Spa … just … not in the hot cycle, not ther cold (shrinkage!) but during the rest zone. Will likely post that story soon it was … so good!
The main problem with hot tubs, spas etc is that here in the UK there are relatively few of them that open their doors to naturists, which means those which do are invariably busy! I know I’m an exhibitionist but but I somehow think that having sex under those circumstances would be a sure fire way of getting banned from the premises for ever!!!!
I did once read of a club in London that had regular swingers evenings….if only I could remember where it is!
The best place to have sex for me is in a busy office toilet because of the threat of being caught. It is just so thrilling to me and my boyfriend. We don’t do it very often as that is just losing the thrill. Try it everyone.